Is it harmful to the body to hold back and not shoot？ ｜ He Xiaoai, please answer
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Here comes the love quiz collection!
Questions from netizens
Is the third degree of cervical erosion very serious? Will it develop into cervical cancer?
Xiao Ai replied
Take a look at this article. Cervical erosion is not a disease: Girls, please come in. Cervical erosion is not a disease. What else do you want to see in the hospital?
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Questions from netizens
Is it normal for middle school students to masturbate? And it is particularly frequent, won’t it affect development?
Xiao Ai replied
Middle school students are in adolescence, and masturbation is normal, but be careful not to masturbate in ways that harm the body, such as stuffing foreign objects into the body, rubbing the genitals with sharp or unclean objects, and pressing the penis hard. At the same time, be careful not to affect rest, study, and life.
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Questions from netizens
Xiao Ai, help! My boyfriend can’t get in, is it due to insufficient foreplay? I’m nervous, and the lubrication is also rubbed. I want to ask if the hymen is thicker? Do you need surgery? The symptom is that it hurts a little, and then it bleeds without inserting it, which is visible to the naked eye. My boyfriend doesn’t dare to continue, and I’m also afraid of pain. I tried it with my fingers, but one finger can still go in slowly, and it’s a little difficult with two fingers… Thank you Xiao Ai~
Xiao Ai replied
Take a look at this article: Have you done your homework on the first night? In fact, the reason why you can’t get in on the first night is basically because you are too nervous, and most people don’t succeed at one time. Try to relax and try a few more times.
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Questions from netizens
What should I do if the vagina always increases before menstruation? The sticky one is around the vulva, and there are no other symptoms. In the past few months, it has started to increase a week before menstruation. Some people said before that you can’t always check it. I have used many courses of internal medication, and it is possible that the flora is out of balance. Let the vagina adjust by itself for a while, is that what you mean?
Xiao Ai replied
If there is no odor or other symptoms, but there are many, there is no problem. Just wash it with water. Frankly speaking, it is difficult for us to determine whether there is a problem just from your description. If you are worried, it is better to go to the hospital for examination.
You can compare this to see if there is any abnormality in your leucorrhea: Leucorrhea: I am a vaginal guardian with eighteen martial arts
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Questions from netizens
Xiao Ai, after the abortion, I have done a review, and there is no problem with the examination, but I have two menstruation in ten days, and one menstruation is 3-4 days. Is this normal? After the abortion surgery, I have menstruation in about a month, and I have two menstruation in ten days. The bleeding volume of the two times is the same as the usual menstrual volume. The hospital prescribed me contraceptives, saying that they can protect the endometrium. Does it have anything to do with taking contraceptives?
Xiao Ai replied
Mainly to use the hormones in the contraceptive pill. If the doctor recommends medication, you must follow the doctor’s advice.
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Questions from netizens
Xiao Ai, there is something I want to consult. My wife has given birth to a child for more than six months, and recently wants to go to the hospital to wear a ring. I would like to ask, is this ring better at home or imported? And are there any side effects after wearing it? I heard people say that my back hurts after wearing the ring before, but I don’t know if it is true. And after wearing it, is the success rate of contraception higher than that of condoms? Hope to get Xiao Ai’s answer, thank you!
Xiao Ai replied
The success rate of contraception with a ring is slightly higher than that of a condom, but the contraceptive effect is good as long as you choose which one is used correctly. If you wear a ring, you need to go to the hospital and ask a doctor to judge according to your physical condition, whether it is suitable for wearing a ring, and what type of ring you wear. After wearing a ring, you should also observe for a period of time. If you feel unwell, you need to see a doctor again.
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Questions from netizens
If the unintended pregnancy is not long, a little more than a month, some say that it can be medicated. I would like to ask if this is okay, whether it will affect the future, and which other drugs are better?
Xiao Ai replied
Whether to have a drug abortion, or what kind of abortion method to choose, must go to a regular hospital for diagnosis to choose, and even if you want a drug abortion, you must do it in the hospital, and follow the doctor’s instructions to closely observe, if there is an unclean abortion, you need to deal with it further. If you miscarry yourself, it is very dangerous to cause heavy bleeding or other problems, so do not buy your own medicine for abortion. If your body is suitable for drug abortion, your doctor will help you choose the right medicine.
Drug abortion and surgical abortion have their own advantages and disadvantages. For details, please refer to the introduction here: Five facts about abortion
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Questions from netizens
Is there any harm in enduring the essence and not ejaculating?
Xiao Ai replied
If you just do some control during sex to delay ejaculation or get a good feeling, but you still ejaculate in the end, there will be no big problem. But if you don’t ejaculate all the time, it will be bad for your health.
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